Religious & Spiritual
We stand before God and these witnesses today, to celebrate one of life’s greatest moments, to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to honor the words that will unite ____ and ____ in marriage.
____ and ____, in the days ahead of you, there will be times of difficulty and conflict. When you find yourselves in these situations, I ask you to reflect on this advice:
Let your love be stronger than your anger.
Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it is better to bend than to break.
Look for the best in your beloved rather than the worst.
Confide in your partner and ask for help when you need it.
Remember that true friendship is the basis for any lasting relationship.
Give your spouse the same courtesies and kindnesses you bestow on your friends.
Let us pray…Divine Creator of all of this wonder, we pray that your love and your joy may flow through us and around us at this time. Shine your light upon ____ and ____ so that they may give wholly to one another in total joy.
Nourish their minds with your wisdom.
Enrich their hearts with your love.
Feed their souls with your peace.
Bless their marriage with your presence.
Give them courage and inspiration to honor the vows they make here today. Amen…
Do you ____, choose ____ to be your beloved wife/spouse/partner?
Do you promise to be a tender, faithful husband/spouse/partner?
Do you promise to love, honor, and cherish him/her, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer, for better, for worse, from this day forward?
Do you ____, choose ____ to be your beloved husband/spouse/partner?
Do you promise to be a tender, faithful wife/spouse/partner?
Do you promise to love, honor, and cherish him/her, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer, for better, for worse, from this day forward?
____ placing the ring on her left hand, repeat after me: With this ring, I thee wed
May God always be with you, protect you, and guide you both, now and forever.
May the sun bring you new energy by day.
May the moon softly restore you by night.
May the rain wash away your worries.
And may you live the days of your lives in peace, love, and happiness.
We stand before God and these witnesses today, to celebrate one of life’s greatest moments, to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to honor the words that will unite ____ and ____ in marriage.
____ and ____, in the days ahead of you, there will be times of difficulty and conflict. When you find yourselves in these situations, I ask you to reflect on this advice:
Let your love be stronger than your anger.
Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it is better to bend than to break.
Look for the best in your beloved rather than the worst.
Confide in your partner and ask for help when you need it.
Remember that true friendship is the basis for any lasting relationship.
Give your spouse the same courtesies and kindnesses you bestow on your friends.
Let us pray…Divine Creator of all of this wonder, we pray that your love and your joy may flow through us and around us at this time. Shine your light upon ____ and ____ so that they may give wholly to one another in total joy.
Nourish their minds with your wisdom.
Enrich their hearts with your love.
Feed their souls with your peace.
Bless their marriage with your presence.
Give them courage and inspiration to honor the vows they make here today. Amen…
Do you ____, choose ____ to be your beloved wife/spouse/partner?
Do you promise to be a tender, faithful husband/spouse/partner?
Do you promise to love, honor, and cherish him/her, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer, for better, for worse, from this day forward?
Do you ____, choose ____ to be your beloved husband/spouse/partner?
Do you promise to be a tender, faithful wife/spouse/partner?
Do you promise to love, honor, and cherish him/her, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer, for better, for worse, from this day forward?
____ placing the ring on his/her left hand, repeat after me: With this ring, I thee wed
____ placing the ring on his/her left hand, repeat after me: With this ring, I thee wed
May God always be with you, protect you, and guide you both, now and forever.
May the sun bring you new energy by day.
May the moon softly restore you by night.
May the rain wash away your worries.
And may you live the days of your lives in peace, love, and happiness.
I ask, as you are able, please stand for the bridal party and opening prayer.
(Bridal party walks down the aisle)
Who supports this bride in her marriage today? (support person / parent says, “I do.” and takes their place among the guests)
O God, Creator of us all, we thank you for the gift of life and on this day we thank you especially for the joy that Person1 and Person2 have found in each other, and for the promises they will make before you.
Bless all of our families and friends who are present with us on this special occasion. We also remember those who couldn’t be here today (you can name people here if you like)
We pray, O God, that you remain with Person1 and Person2 as a partner in their marriage. Grant to them, and to us all,
love and understanding all of our days. Amen
Please Be seated. (Guests sit)
Welcome! Thank you for joining us here today, for coming from far and wide to celebrate the joining together in marriage of Person1 and Person2. We gather here today to celebrate their union, and to honor their commitment to not just gazing at one another, but to looking outward together in the same direction. P1 and P2 proclaim their love to the world, and we are happy for them.
We have come here as a community of family and friends to love and support the two of you. To witness your entrance into the sacred and joyous covenant of marriage, and to celebrate the beginning of your journey together as husband and wife.
We rejoice that through each other, You have come to know the power of love. We celebrate your union of hearts, minds, bodies, and souls, and wish you a loving and happy marriage.
(Declaration of Support)
In marriage, we give ourselves freely and generously into the hands of the one we love, and in doing so, each of us receives the love and trust of the other as our most precious gift. But even as that gift is shared by two people who are in love, it also touches the friends and family members who, in various ways, support and contribute to the relationship. All of you are P1 and P2’s community, and each of you has played some part in bringing them to this moment. This is why gathering together is such a treasured part of this ceremony. Each of you, by your presence here today, Is being called upon to uphold them in honoring and loving each other. Always stand beside them, Never between them. Offer them your love and support, Not your judgment. Encourage them with your kindness and loving hearts, And honor this marriage as a most sacred covenant.
Marriage is a journey of transformation into the profound mysteries of life and creation. In marriage, two become one and, the two of you together is much greater than the simple sum of your parts. In marriage, we do not give ourselves to another, but rather surrender into something greater. We surrender to love itself. Today, you step into a much fuller experience and expression of the mysteries and miracles of love.
Your precious union is lovely in its innocence, mighty in its strength, and abundant with possibilities. We wish for you the wisdom, strength of character, and divine creativity to make this a happy marriage, a safe harbor, and a joyful journey to share.
P1 and P2, as you prepare to take your vows. I would like to remind you of the words of 1 Corinthians. It tells us that Love is patient and kind. So be patient and loving with each other. Love does not envy, it does not boast, and it is not proud. With that in mind, promise to build each other up, encouraging each other in all that you do. Love is neither rude nor self-seeking, so remember to be kind and look out for one another. Love is not easily angered and it keeps no record of wrongs. So, remember to forgive and forget. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
When asking the question, why do we marry? The book of Ecclesiastes reminds us that two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.
(Vows)
Do you P2, take P1 to be your wife/partner, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part? (I do)
Do you P2, take P1 to be your husband/partner, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do you part? (I do)
(Ring Exchange)
Please present the rings.
The ring is a circle… an ancient symbol of eternity and completeness, so perfect, with no beginning and no end, for love that is given comes back around again.
P2, as you place the ring on P1’s finger, please repeat after me: I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and commitment.
P1, as you place the ring on P2’s finger, Please repeat after me: I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and commitment.
P1 and P2, please hold the hands of your spouse. These are the hands that will work alongside yours, together, as you build your future.
These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes, tears of sorrow and tears of joy.
These are the hands that will lift your chin and brush your cheek as they raise your face to look into eyes filled with overwhelming love.
And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.
(Final Blessing)
Bride and Groom, may you live happily ever after. May all your days be blessed with love and friendship. May each day and night of your lives be a new beginning. May your home be filled with laughter and the warm embrace of a summer day. May you find peacefulness and beauty, challenge, and satisfaction, humor and insight, healing and renewal, love and wisdom. May you always feel that what you have is more than enough.
P1 and P2, after witnessing the commitments made before me today, it is my honor to pronounce you husband and wife / married partners for life!
You may kiss (the bride)!
Welcome Everyone! Thank you for being here today to celebrate the marriage of Bride and Groom as they promise their love and devotion to each other. This ceremony will honor some cherished Jewish traditions, starting here, under the chuppah. The chuppah canopy sits atop four poles which represent not only the couple’s commitment to establish a home together, but a home that will always be open to guests.
A veil in the Jewish wedding symbolizes the idea of modesty, and convey that however attractive physical appearances may be, the soul and character are more important. Veils also symbolize the groom’s commitment to clothe and protect his wife. So Bride, you can take comfort in knowing no matter what, Groom will always keep you safe and cover your back. With or without a veil, we remember this union is based on a mental, physical and spiritual commitment for a lifetime.
I’m not a Rabbi, but as an interfaith minister, I believe in your ability to make intimate promises to each other, and that your sincerity in making those promises will indeed bless you both.
During the ceremony, I will recite the traditional Jewish 7 blessings of marriage.
We will end the ceremony with the breaking of a glass, which also signifies the beginning of todays celebration. So please, after Groom breaks the glass, I invite everyone to shout the Hebrew words “Mazel Tov,” meaning “Congratulations.”
Now, Let’s Get started.
Who presents / supports ___ and ___ to / at this wedding today?
(We do)
(In Jewish weddings the bride and the groom are escorted down the aisle by both of their parents.)
Thank you.
(Vows)
Please face each other and join hands..
You have come here today to commit your faithfulness and love to each other. You will affirm that love, in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health, in failure and in triumph. Together you will break bread and be nourished. You will share all things found in both the home and the heart.
(Intention)
Do you Groom, take Bride, to be your wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward, for the rest of your days?
Groom Responds: “I do”
Do you Bride take Groom, to be your husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward, for the rest of your days?
Bride Responds: responds, “I do”
(Ring Exchange)
Please present the rings.
Wedding rings are the universal symbols of marriage. Let them always remind you of the one person in this world who has pledged their undying love to you.
Bride, Please repeat after me: Groom, I give you this ring as a gift of my love and a symbol of my commitment.
Groom, Please repeat after me: Bride, I give you this ring as a gift of my love and a symbol of my commitment.
(The Seven Blessings)
Now I charge you with the Seven blessings of marriage;
(1)
May you be blessed with love. May your admiration, appreciation and understanding of each other foster a love that is passionate, tranquil and real. May this love between you be strong and enduring, and bring peace into your lives.
(2)
May you be blessed with a loving home filled with warmth, humor and compassion. May you create a family together that honors traditions old and new. May you teach your children to have equal respect for themselves and others, and instill in them the value of learning and making the world a better place.
(3)
May you be best friends and work together to build a relationship of substance and quality. May your sense of humor and playful spirit continue to enliven your relationship. May you respect each other’s individual personality and perspective, and give each other room to grow in fulfilling your dreams.
(4)
May you be blessed with wisdom. May you continually learn from one another and from the world. Together, may you grow, deepening your knowledge and understanding of each other and of your journey through life.
(5)
May you be blessed with health. May life bring you wholeness of mind, body and spirit. May you keep each other well-balanced and grounded, and live long that you may share many happy years together.
(6)
May your life be blessed with the art and beauty of this world. May your creative aspirations and experiences find expression, inspire you and bring you joy and fulfilment. May you find happiness together in adventures big and small, and something to celebrate each day of your lives.
(7)
May you be blessed with community. May you always be blessed with the awareness that you are an essential part of a circle of family and friends. May there always be within this group love, trust, support and laughter, and may there be many future occasions for rejoicing in their company.
Bride and Groom, I now pronounce you husband and wife! You may kiss the bride!
Breaking of the glass
Everyone shouts Mazel Tov!!!
Dearly beloved, we are gathered here on this beautiful day to witness the union of XXX and ZZZ in holy matrimony. This is a day of great celebration and reverence, on which we come together before God to recognize and commemorate the sacred love and dedication shared between these two people.
XXX and ZZZ please turn and face all the family and friends here today.
This couple would like to thank their guests for being here, and would like you to know that each of you were invited here today because you have played an integral part in their intertwining lives.
As the Bible reminds us in Corinthians, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails.”
Family, friends, and loved ones let us pray together:
“Gracious Father God, we give thanks for your gift of enduring love and your presence here with us now as we witness the vows of marriage between XXX and ZZZ. We ask you to bless this couple in their union and throughout their life as husband and wife. Keep and guide them from this day forward. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
May you all remember and cherish this sacred ceremony, for on this day, the lives of XXX and ZZZ will forever be bound together in matrimony.
Who gives this bride today?
Bride’s Mother & Father:
“We do”
Marriage is one of life’s greatest gifts, and it is a blessing to make these promises with your soulmate. As you hold onto one another, you will find deeper levels of joy, happiness and peace together. Your marriage is the foundation upon which you will build the rest of your lives and, despite any adversity, will always be there to sustain you.
Take a moment to sense the tremendous amount of love around you. As you stand here today, before God, before those gathered here in your honor, and before one another, take note that after you speak your vows, you will leave here as husband and wife / committed partners for life.
On your journeys together, keep your spouse as the highest priority in your heart.
Learn to work together, to laugh together, and to love together. As your relationship strengthens you will find that you come to share a remarkable love; a love that is both abundantly given and freely accepted.
The expression of your love and your courtship shouldn’t end with the honeymoon, it should continue through all the years. Having mutual sense of values; sharing a circle of love that gathers as family. Speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways. It is being friends and respecting each other’s individual personality. It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a big sense of humor. It is having the capacity to forgive and forget. It is finding room for things of the spirit. It is a common search for the good and the beautiful. It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.
As we celebrate this bond of unity today under the eyes of God, it is important that we keep in mind that, while this is certainly an occasion of tremendous joy, the promises we witness here today are serious life-long commitments.
I charge you both to remember, “What God has joined together, let no man separate.” Marriage is between two people. Do not invite others into your marriage.
The sacred vows that you make to one another today present you with the opportunity to say your love in your own words.
ZZZ, please begin;
(ZZZ speaks their vows)
XXX you may now make your promise.
(XXX speaks their vows)
Please join hands.
Do you, ZZZ, take XXX to live together in the union of marriage? To take her/him/them as your best friend and partner in life? To honor, cherish, and love her/him/them, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, for all of the days to come?
(ZZZ states “I do”)
Do you, XXX, take ZZZ to live together in the union of marriage? To take him/her/them as your best friend and partner in life? To honor, cherish, and love him/her/them, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, for all of the days to come?
(XXX states “I do”)
Having witnessed your love and your intentions, it is by the power vested in me by the Universal Life Church and the state of MA/CT/RI, that I am pleased to pronounce you Husband and Wife. You may kiss your bride!
Dearly beloved, we have gathered here to bear witness and celebrate the reunification/marriage of ___ and ___.
___ and ___, I ask you both, “Do you stand before me, ready to enter into marriage without coercion, freely and wholeheartedly?”
“As you follow the path of marriage, do you promise to love and honor each other for as long as you both shall live?”
“___ and ___, you have already demonstrated your commitment to accepting and raising children according to the law of Christ and His church.
Do you intend to continue to nurture them, as well as their children and future children?”
Please hold hands and repeat after me;
I, ___, take you, ___, to be my wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do us part.
I, ___, take you, ___, to be my husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do us part.
Please present the rings
___, placing the ring on her left hand, repeat after me,
“___, with this ring, I thee wed.”
Now ___, placing the ring on his left hand, repeat after me,
“___, with this ring, I thee wed.”
What God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.
It is by the power vested in me, that I am happy to pronounce you
husband and wife. You may kiss your bride!
- I, ______, take you, ______, to be my (husband/wife), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until we are parted by death.
- Will you have this (woman/man) to be your (wife/husband), to live together in holy marriage? Will you love (her/him), comfort (her/him), honor, and keep (her/him) in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, be faithful to (her/him) as long as you both shall live? (Respond with “I do.”)
- Will you, have _____ to be your (wife/husband)? Will you love (her/him), comfort and keep (her/him), and forsaking all others remain true to (her/him), as long as you both shall live? (Respond with, “I will.”)
have you come here freely and without reservation to give yourselves to each other in marriage?”
“Will you honor each other as man and wife for the rest of your lives?”
“Will you accept children lovingly from God and bring them up according to the law of Christ and his Church?”
Welcome friends, family, and loved ones – all who come in peace to witness the union of ____
and ____. We are here today to celebrate with them and to share in their triumph as they
proclaim their love for one another.
For those who my not be familiar, a Handfasting ceremony is a little different from a traditional
wedding ceremony in that it recognizes that love, like life, is dynamic. Traditionally, these
ceremonies were done in Celtic lands, and vows could be taken for a year, or they could be taken
forever, because those Celtic ancestors understood that love changes from moment to moment,
and that every couple is unique – as is every relationship.
Today, ____ and ____ have chosen to commit to one another for the rest of their lives, but
they understand that the love they commit to is dynamic and fluid, and what we celebrate is the
eternal connection of their souls.
I’m sure we all have seen evidence of that connection between these two souls. It’s in the way
____ smiles when she/he sees ____ come into the room, or when she/he lights up ever so
slightly at the mention of his/her name. It’s the gleam in ____’s eye when he/she talks about ____,
or the way he/she holds him/her/them close when they’re together. There’s no denying that these two
souls are connected – and that is what we’ve gathered to celebrate in this moment – the deep, spiritual love that ___ and ___ share.
Let there be no mistake. While the tradition of hand binding recognizes and
accepts love as dynamic in nature, it is not to be entered into lightheartedly, because it is a sacred
vow.
The vows you make today signify that your souls are bound eternally, whether or not your bodies
are. You make these vows today with the understanding that you are committing to be a partner
to one another, and to honor that connection.
These sacred vows should not easily be broken, as you make them to one another in the presence of
these loved ones as witnesses.
Knowing this, ___ and ___ is it your intent to enter into this commitment of marriage?
(Couple states, “It is.”)
Then let us begin.
___ and ___, you will be making six vows in total to one another before me and these
witnesses. For each, I will ask ___ for his/her/their commitment first, then I will ask
____. Once you have both affirmed, we will move to the next vow.
(1) ___, will you share in ___’s pain, and seek to protect him/her/them from it and ease
him/her/them of it?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
___, will you share in ___’s pain, and seek to protect him/her/them from it and ease
him/her/them of it?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
Then let the binding be so.
(2) ___, will you share in ___’s joy, rejoice in it with him/her/them, and look for the best in
him/her/them always?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
___, will you share in ___’s joy, rejoice in it with him/her/them, and look for the best in
him/her/them always?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
Then let the binding be so.
(3) ____, will you share in ____’s hardships and toil, so that the two of you may grow
together?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
____, will you share in ____’s hardships and toil, so that the two of you may grow
together?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
Then let the binding be so.
(4) ___, will you share in ___’s dreams and work with him/her/them to fulfill them?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
___, will you share in ___’s dreams and work with him/her/them to fulfill them?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
Then let the binding be so.
(5) ___, will be aggressive in your attempts to strengthen and temper the bond between you and ___?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
___, will be aggressive in your attempts to strengthen and temper the bond between you and ___?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
Then let the binding be so.
(6) ___, will you honor and respect ___, treating him/her/them as an equal in this bond?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
___, will you honor and respect ___, treating him/her/them as an equal in this bond?
(Respond with, “I will.”)
Then let the binding be so.
___ please repeat after me: ___ I promise on this day to share your pain, your joy, your
burdens, and your dreams, and to help you navigate the maze of life together as our love grows.
___ please repeat after me: ___, I promise on this day to share your pain, your joy, your
burdens, and your dreams, and to help you navigate the maze of life together as our love grows.
___ and ___ having proclaimed the bond of your souls together in the sight of these
witnesses, and based on the strength of that bond, it is by the power vested in me by the Universal
Life Church and the state of MA/CT/RI, I now pronounce you married/husband and wife.
Please seal your bond with a kiss!
Welcome family, friends, and loved ones. Please be seated.
It’s a Hebrew tradition that to begin weddings, we say a prayer to ask God’s blessing upon ___ and ___, and when translated into English, that prayer is this:
Let us all bow our heads:
Blessed are you, O Lord, King of the Universe, who created happiness and joy, bridegroom and bride, gladness, jubilation, dancing, and delight, love and brotherhood, peace and fellowship. Quickly, O Lord our God, may the sound of mirth and joy be heard in the streets of Judah and Jerusalem, and right here in (city), the voice of bridegroom and bride, jubilant voices of bridegrooms from their canopies and youths from the feasts of song. Blessed are you, O Lord, who makes the bridegroom rejoice with the bride.
Amen
The tradition of marriage goes back to the beginning of creation, when God made the first man and the first woman, and he married them together on that, the sixth day, which is why we gather here together on a Friday – to commemorate the first marriage – anointed by God.
The covenant that these two enter into is a sacred one dating back to creation itself, and it is done here under His canopy, in the presence of God and these witnesses so that we, as a community, shall hold ___ and ___ accountable to the vows they make today.
____, ____, in the site of these witnesses and before Almighty God, are you ready to pledge yourselves to one another?
(Couple responds, “We are.”)
King Solomon, once considered the wisest man of his day, declared that people who are married should carry some kind of symbol – such as a ring – on their hands. He thought this was wise because we look at our hands all the time, and the ring is a constant reminder that we are bound to another.
___, you’re about to enter into a sacred covenant with God, your family and friends, and your beautiful bride to be. That covenant is thousands of years old, and carries the highest regard and respect. Please look into ___’s eyes, and repeat after me as you place the ring on his/her/their finger: “I am my beloved’s and he/she/they is all mine.”
___, you’re about to enter into a sacred covenant with God, your family and friends, and your beautiful bride to be. That covenant is thousands of years old, and carries the highest regard and respect. Please look into ___’s eyes, and repeat after me as you place the ring on his/her/their finger: “I am my beloved’s and he/she/they is all mine.”
As the rings have now been exchanged, let us begin a reading from the 7 blessings;
Blessed are you, O lord our God, King of the Universe who has created all things for Your glory.
Blessed art You, O lord our God, King of the Universe, creator of man.
Blessed art You, O lord our God, King of the Universe who made man in his image, after his likeness.
O Lord, make these two young people greatly rejoice even as you rejoiced in your creation in the Garden of Eden of old.
Blessed are You, O Lord, who makes this groom and bride rejoice this day.
Blessed art You, O lord our God, King of the Universe, who has created joy and gladness, bridegroom and bride, mirth and exultation, pleasure and delight, love, brotherhood, peace and fellowship.
Soon may there be heard in the cities of Judah and in the streets of Jerusalem and of (place), the voice of joy and gladness, the voice of the bridegroom and the voice of the bride, the jubilant voice of the bridegrooms from the canopies, and of youths from their feasts of song.
Blessed art you, O Lord who makes the bridegroom to rejoice with the bride.
In closing, it is traditional to break the wine glass under foot, and to wish the new couple Mazel Tov, which, in Hebrew, means “good luck,” so as ___ steps on the glass please all wish them Mazel Tov with me.
(Mazel Tov!)
___ and ___, I now pronounce you husband/wife/partner and husband/wife/partner. _________ you may kiss your bride/groom/partner!
Ladies and gentlemen, by the power vested in me by the state of MA/CT/RI, it is my pleasure to present to you Mr & Mrs_______!
Today, _____ and _____ pledge their unconditional love, and dedicate themself to grow together throughout the seasons of life.
You are twin flames who will surely challenge each other, and accept each other’s challenges. In marriage, you are bound together. Committed to supporting and respecting one another’s individual journey of growth and belief. You will cherish your union and expand your love more with each passing day.
VOWS
In the presence of God/The Creator/Mother Earth and these witnesses, Do you, ________, take ________ to be your wife/husband/spouse, your partner in life and your one true love, promising with Divine assistance to be a loving and faithful partner in return?
Groom/Person2 states, “I do.”
And do you, ________, take ________ to be your husband/wife/spouse, your partner in life and your one true love, promising with Divine assistance to be a loving and faithful partner in return?
Bride/Person1 states, “I do.”
RING EXCHANGE (optional)
Rings are made of precious metal, but that same metal is also made precious by wearing them. Your wedding rings are special because they enhance who you already are. They are a sign of your journey together. Your wedding ring is a circle, a symbol of love never ending, and a seal to the vows you have just taken.
________, placing the ring on her/his/their left hand, please repeat after me, “_______, with this ring, I thee wed”
(Groom/Person2 recites to the Bride/Person1)
______, placing the ring on his/her/their left hand, please repeat after me, “______, with this ring, I thee wed.”
(Bride/Person1 recites to the Groom/Person2)
IRISH BLESSING
May flowers always line your path and sunshine light your day;
May song birds serenade you every step along the way.
May a rainbow run beside you in a sky that’s always blue,
And may happiness fill your heart each day, your whole life through.
PRONOUNCEMENT
By the power vested in me by the State of ___________, I now pronounce you husband and wife /h&h/w&w/married partners for life. You may kiss your bride/husband/spouse!
Dearly beloved, we have gathered here to bear witness and celebrate the union of ___ and ___.
___ and ___, I ask you both, “Do you stand before me, ready
to enter into marriage without coercion, freely and wholeheartedly?”
“As you follow the path of marriage, do you promise to love and honor each other for as long as you both shall live?”
“___ and ___, do you commit yourselves to accepting and raising any children you may have, according to the law of Christ and His church?”
Please hold hands and repeat after me;
I, ___, take you ___, to be my wife,
to have and to hold from this day forward,
for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer,
in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish, until death do us part.
I, ___, take you, ___, to be my husband,
to have and to hold from this day forward,
for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer,
in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish, until death do us part.
Please present the rings
___, placing the ring on her left hand, repeat after me,
“___, with this ring, I thee wed.”
Now ___, placing the ring on his left hand, repeat after me,
“___, with this ring, I thee wed.”
What God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.
It is by the power vested in me, that I am happy to pronounce you
husband and wife. You may kiss your bride!
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